(Emglish) How to Talk Wisely to Rude Friends

This book is a sort of practical book for children who are dealing with diverse relationships. Children will be able to protect their self-esteems wisely under various situations at school and to have their social life in a wise way. 

The writer, who is also an elementary school teacher, has shown a variety of conflicts among students she has observed or directly involved in. What she meant through this book is to comfort students who might have experienced or may experience in future. She also suggests how to protect my ego and communicate with others in a friendly and wise way. 

Don’t you think that students may be able to smoothly handle problems even if they suddenly face awkward situations, if students observe a variety of conflicts indirectly through this book? And what if students learn how to deal with controversial situations in advance by communicating in a sophisticated way without hurting anyone’s feelings? The book guides readers to handle even with tiny examples. 

Through this book, children will be able to meet various conflict cases and realize that nothing is wrong with themselves. It doesn’t happen to me only and it is sort of some events everyone goes through while growing up. Recognizing that fact is somewhat comforting for children. This book cheers all children to grow up by keeping more stable sentiments in themselves. 

어른에게도 참 어려운 인간관계, 그 시작은 초등학교 시절이라 할 수 있다. 저학년 때에는 아직 사회생활이 익숙하지 않은 친구들 사이에서 곤란한 일들이 많이 생긴다. 선물로 준 물건을 다시 돌려 달라는 친구, 자기 물건을 잃어버리고는 나를 의심하는 친구, 시합에서 졌다고 나에게 툴툴거리는 친구 등. 고학년 때에는 학교 폭력의 단초가 될 수 있는 상황이 오가기도 한다. 이럴 때 상대의 기분이 상하지 않도록 좀 더 세련되게 의사를 표시하고 위기 상황에 대처하는 방법을 알 수 있다면 조금 더 낫지 않을까? 학교에서 부딪히는 다양한 상황들 속에서 현명하게 나의 자존감을 지키고 슬기롭게 사회생활을 해 나갈 수 있도록 돕는, 어린이를 위한 본격 인간관계 실용서이다.