(Vietnamese) Tính thẩm mỹ của việc lắng nghe
Cuốn sách xem xét "sự lắng nghe" - khởi đầu của việc gắn kết các mối quan hệ tự nhiên trên quan điểm tâm lý học. Là nghiên cứu ấm áp về sự lắng nghe được thuật lại bởi Giám đôc Choi Myung Ki, bác sỹ chuyên khoa tâm thần - người đã gần gũi nhất với nỗi đau của người khác và được nghe về những nỗi đau đó nhiều hơn bất kì ai. Cuốn sách chỉ ra những cuộc đối thoại khó khăn, những lời khuyên hay lời khuyên hay cảnh cáo vụng về mà chúng ta luôn gặp phải trong cuộc sống, đồng thời giải quyết một cách rõ ràng và dễ hiểu bằng tâm lý học về những người không giỏi trong việc thiết lập các mối quan hệ.
(Indonesian) Cobalah dengar
Buku ini membahas tentang proses "mendengar dengan seksama"yang merupakan proses awal dari sebuah hubungan alami dengan sudut pandang psikologi. Jadi, buku ini adalah buku belajar yang menyenangkan tentang mendengarkan dari seorang psikiater ahli yang paling sering didengar namanya dan paling dekat dengan kesakitan orang lain, Direktur Choi Myeonggi. Buku ini mengungkapkan dengan jelas dan mudah dengan ilmu psikologi tentang percakapan yang sulit dalam kehidupan, pendapat atau saran yang canggung dan orang-orang yang tergesa-gesa dalam menjalin hubungan.
(English) Learning to Listen : A Psychology Class to Help Us Move
“I want to listen to your heart.”
True listening enables us to look deeply into our heart, leading to the moment of truth.
Learning to Listen deals, from a psychological perspective, with “listening,” a natural way of connecting to someone as well as an active way to share feelings. Written by a psychiatrist who has listened closely to many stories, sometimes painful ones, it teaches us how to listen. Offering many examples of tricky conversations, sloppy advice, and unwise counsel, it investigates why we encounter difficulties connecting with some people, and it provides clear and easy explanations.
For some time, restoring the self-esteem necessary to survive this harsh world as well as a way to protect oneself and not to get hurt by others are themes that psychological discussions have focused on. Choe explains that humans are born with a desire to communicate with others and that humans instinctively try to overcome their fear and loneliness through communication. Freed from the pressure of having good relationships with colleagues at work, acquaintances, friends, and family members, one can pursue a life of one’s own choosing together with others. By not ignoring one’s own hurt and not overlooking the pain of others, one can have satisfying conversations just by listening to each other.
Learning to Listen is a book for those wanting to lead a life of dignity and comfort by focusing on their imperfect hearts. It also contains useful knowledge for psychiatrists and counselors with its practical counseling methods. Incorporating the author’s lengthy counseling experience and his efforts to help many clients, the book will resonate in the hearts of readers who want to listen to their inner self and pursue free communication.
