(English) Choi is an elementary schoolteacher with 12 years' experience and a voluntary bystander mom of two daughters. The author did not help her children with things they could do on their own. In this book, she advises that children who have learned to take on a self-directed approach to learning during the ages of 4 to10 will naturally commit themselves to learning later on, so parents should never try to push them to memorize the Korean alphabet, English phonics, or the multiplication table. Instead, parents should relax and merely try to fill in the gaps little by little and respond appropriately; this book guides parents towards the path of a master parent where the child voluntarily immerses themselves in their studies. Choi has appeared in various TV programs and is currently living with her children in France, experiencing the amazing effects of voluntary bystander parenting.

(Japanese) 小学校の教師12年目であり、２人の娘を育てる自発的傍観ママ。子どもが自分でできることは、なるべく手伝わないと話す。４-10歳の間に自分でできる力を育てれば、勉強への意志は自然と生まれるもので、ハングルや英語、九九の暗記に力を注ぐべきではないと語る。穏やかな心でゆっくり、足りない部分は少しずつ克服し、子どもの声にちゃんと応えてあげれば自ら勉強に打ち込むようになるという育児のやり手としてのコツを伝授。数々の番組に出演し、現在フランスで「自発的傍観育児」の驚くべき効果を自ら経験しながら、子どもたちと過ごしている。